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Adult children discuss the trials of caring for their aging parents

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

Reed Abelson, The New York Times and Jordan Rau | KFF Health News (TNS)Natasha Lazartes39, Brooklyn, New YorkTherapistI am 39 years old. I had to care for my father, who passed from cancer in 2019; my mother, who passed in November 2021 from cancer; and since my mother’s passing, I have inherited the care of my grandmother. She is 97, diagnosed with moderate dementia, and considered high risk to be left home alone. We had been applying for Medicaid long-term care to receive a home health aide since early November 2021. She finally got a home health aide in January 2022, but it’s been a nightmare. They are so desperate to hire workers that they will take anyone. She was left without an aide on many random days with a late-notice telephone call or text message from the aide needing the day off and the agencies not able to find a replacement in time. I have changed agencies multiple times. My husband has been a great support the entire time. We rely on security cameras we installed in ...

Many Americans facing financial ruin as costs soar for elder care

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

Reed Abelson, The New York Times and Jordan Rau | (TNS) KFF Health NewsMargaret Newcomb, 69, a retired French teacher, is desperately trying to protect her retirement savings by caring for her 82-year-old husband, who has severe dementia, at home in Seattle. She used to fear his disease-induced paranoia, but now he’s so frail and confused that he wanders away with no idea of how to find his way home. He gets lost so often that she attaches a tag to his shoelace with her phone number.Feylyn Lewis, 35, sacrificed a promising career as a research director in England to return home to Nashville after her mother had a debilitating stroke. They ran up $15,000 in medical and credit card debt while she took on the role of caretaker.Sheila Littleton, 30, brought her grandfather with dementia to her family home in Houston, then spent months fruitlessly trying to place him in a nursing home with Medicaid coverage. She eventually abandoned him at a psychiatric hospital to force the system to ac...

Everything you need to know about the Taylor Swift themed cruise

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

By Carolyn Burt, Southern California News GroupAhoy Swifties! If you’ve ever imagined yourself in a picturesque moment, staring out at sea in a nice dress during sunset as the chorus of “Wildest Dreams (Taylor’s Version)” plays in the background, now’s your chance.A Taylor Swift themed cruise is setting sail in 2024. The fan sponsored event organized by Marvelous Mouse Travels will take Swifties on a Royal Caribbean cruise sailing from the port of Miami to Nassau, Bahamas. According to a post by event organizers in the Facebook group for the Taylor Swift themed cruise, because of limited capacity they are operating on a waitlist model, showcasing the impact a Swift theme can have on businesses.This experience is a chance for Swifties to make the friendship bracelets yet again, connect with other fans and make memories to hold onto.Related: ‘Taylor Swift: The Eras Tour’ is one of the greatest concert films of all timeHere’s what you need to know:When is it?The 5 day/4 night cruise de...

Macaulay Culkin competes on 'Celebrity Jeopardy!' for San Diego Zoo Wildlife Alliance

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

SAN DIEGO -- With the holiday's approaching, seeing the face of "Home Alone" child star Macaulay Culkin is expected. Now, years later, he's making a whole new TV appearance on behalf of a well-known organization in San Diego.Culkin took the digital podium Thursday night to compete in an episode of the popular American game show "Celebrity Jeopardy!"He was joined by comedian and actress Rachel Dratch, who's known for creating the "Saturday Night Live" character Debbie Downer. Also at the podium, was WWE superstar and professional wrestler Becky Lynch. VIDEO: Bioluminescent waves spotted at these San Diego beaches Each of the celebrities were vying to raise money for their respective charities, with Culkin competing for the San Diego Zoo Wildlife Alliance. As most San Diegans know, this "not-for-profit" organization operates the San Diego Zoo and the San Diego Zoo Safari Park, while also supporting conservation efforts internationally. Meanwhile, Dratch played on behalf of food res...

The Paris Olympics scales back design of a new surf tower in Tahiti after criticism from locals

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

LE PECQ, France (AP) — Organizers of next year’s Paris Olympics are scaling back the metal tower they plan to build for judges and television cameras at the picture-perfect surfing venue in Tahiti. They’re bowing to concerns on the French Polynesian island about damage to sea life and its majestic Teahupo’o wave.The tower will still be erected out at sea with aluminum but will be smaller, lighter, hold fewer people and require shallower drilling than originally planned, games organizers announced Friday evening.Critics on the island have voiced fears for coral reefs, fish and other aquatic life when the tower’s foundations are drilled into the seabed and mounted on concrete. Islanders pushed for the Olympics to use a wooden tower on existing foundations that’s long been the set-up for surfing competitions at Teahupo’o. They have collected more than 160,000 signatures with an online petition.Tahitian surfer Matahi Drollet has been among opponents of the metal ...

Police board votes to fire Chicago officer accused of dragging woman by the hair during 2020 unrest

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

CHICAGO (AP) — The Chicago Police Board voted to fire an officer accused of dragging a Black woman out of a car by her hair during unrest at a mall in 2020.The board voted unanimously Thursday to fire Officer David Laskus, finding he used excessive force and lied to investigators about the incident, the Chicago Tribune reported.Mia Wright was a passenger in a car that arrived at the Brickyard Mall on May 31, 2020, during a weekend of protests and unrest following the death of George Floyd. Floyd was a Black man who died after a white Minneapolis police officer knelt on his neck.A federal lawsuit that Wright and four relatives filed states that they drove to the mall to go shopping and didn’t realize it was closed due to the unrest. The lawsuit alleged that officers surrounded their car, broke the windows with their batons and pulled Wright out by her hair. Wright said she was left blind in one eye by flying glass caused by officers breaking the windows. Wright was 25 years old...

More complaints about bathroom contractor accused of cheating customers across the GTA

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

A bathroom reglazing company CityNews told you about back in August is facing more criticism from customers and appears to still be in business.“They just painted our tub, took cash and never responded to our calls anymore after we found out the paint peeled off on the second day,” said Lilia Perevalov, who reached out to us after seeing our initial report.Other people have come to CityNews with the same complaints.The company, once called Shiny Bathtubs and Tile Refinishing, is accused of selling services to reglaze bathrooms. When done correctly, it’s a multi-step process where a special reglazing chemical is used on tubs or tiles to make them look new. It’s a cheaper option for many people compared to a complete bathroom overhaul.“But they’re using paint, not the reglazing chemical they’re selling,” said Jesus Fajardo, who first reached out to CityNews about this contractor. He hired the company last summer and paid them $3,000.“What I was left with was a mess,” he said. “Paint w...

B.C. plane wreck ‘verified’ by RCMP is revealed to be fake crash site for training

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

KAMLOOPS — Plane wreckage that made headlines this week when officials announced a hunter had stumbled on what police thought was a decades-old crash site in the B.C. Interior was actually placed there deliberately for training purposes.A notice posted Tuesday on the Civil Aviation Daily Occurrence Reporting System says the RCMP inspected the site north of Kamloops and “verified” the wreckage was at least 20 to 25 years old, and it carried no registration or identifying marks.But Fred Carey, executive director with volunteer air safety group PEP-Air, says their group planted the fuselage there two years ago “at the most,” marking it with tags to let people know it wasn’t a real crash site.The wreck has no motor, wings, doors, seats, or propeller.Carey says the report about the wreckage “made no sense,” and his group, which is part of the Civil Air Search and Rescue Association, had contacted RCMP to let them know it isn’t a real crash site.R...

Haitian immigrants sue Indiana over law that limits driver’s license access to certain Ukrainians

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

INDIANAPOLIS (AP) — A federal judge heard arguments Friday from lawyers for a group of Indiana residents from Haiti who are suing the state over a law that allows immigrants in the U.S. on humanitarian parole to get driver’s licenses, but only if they are from Ukraine. The five plaintiffs say the law passed this year is discriminatory and unconstitutional, and they asked the court to strike down the law’s provision that limits its scope to people from Ukraine.U.S. District Court Judge Tanya Walton Pratt said she will issue a ruling at an unspecified date. The lawsuit was filed in August against the Commissioner of the Indiana Bureau of Motor Vehicles. The plaintiffs are represented by attorneys with the American Civil Liberties Union of Indiana and the National Immigration Law Center. The law provides an avenue for immigrants on humanitarian parole from Ukraine to obtain driver’s licenses and identification cards. The class-action lawsuit seeks to force the Bureau of Mot...

Nearly two decades on, Scott Pilgrim’s fandom continues to grow

Published Fri, 22 Nov 2024 04:01:00 GMT

Toronto layabout Scott Pilgrim has been 23 for 19 years, but somehow, he still feels fresh. The chronically unemployed bass player is back — this time in the Netflix anime “Scott Pilgrim Takes Off,” which debuts to a larger built-in audience than any of the character’s previous iterations. The fandom has grown over the years as new generations discover the charms of the Canadian graphic novel series turned indie film, which follows the titular slacker — portrayed in the movie by Canada’s own Michael Cera — as he decides to date Ramona Flowers, an American delivery girl whose seven evil exes are determined to thwart him. “Kids all over the world seem to kind of get it in a weird way,” said Bryan Lee O’Malley, who created the 2004book series and co-wrote the show.“I think it’s the specificity. I always go back to Bruce Springsteen, or the Canadian version, Joel Plaskett. It’s the very specific references grounded in something...